09-23-2011, 05:23 AM
Thanks Aish. That makes a lot of sense. In the interest of learning, I want to explain what I am seeing when I read this. In some contests, there are definite ways to tell who the winner is, but in others, it can be more subjective. Often both parties walk away feeling that they have won the day. Mud-slinging, like being at odds with a loved one, has no winners. In the end, you're all dirty and humiliated.

