On Criticism

[Leanne]

The classic example of the difference between the two is when a woman asks you: Does this dress make me look fat?
Will your answer be honest, or kind?

That's such a well-worn argument that everyone knows there's no right answer by now. Besides, only a woman insecure enough to care about the opinion of a man would ask such a thing.

On the roads thing -- would you elaborate? Why doesn't it work for you and do you have a suggestion for improvement?

Don't feel you need to be kind. I'm not an insecure woman.