On Criticism

[critical mass]

i think it's possible to be kind and honest at the same time.
sadly most just offer kindness.

Maybe it is possible, but usually honesty and kindness are opposite alternatives.
Honesty can be brutal, while kindness is often a white lie reinforcing the recipient's delusions.

The classic example of the difference between the two is when a woman asks you: Does this dress make me look fat?
Will your answer be honest, or kind?

My answer would be I like big bottom women.

David