01-27-2011, 01:24 PM
I would post an URL to my blog on that particular topic but that's annoying - as for me, I personally became deeply infatuated with Gill Grissom from CSI: LA - not for the looks but entirely based on his intellect and mystery. I find that a warped mind or very intellectual mind is incredibly attractive to me. As for 'falling in love' personally, I believe, it's down to six attributes: What you are looking for? The confirmation you require in yourself - a self-esteem boost or confirmation of a low self-esteem. Timing. The things you see in them that you either wish you could acquire or can see in yourself. The way they treat you in comparison to others in your life at the time and finally whether you personally are vulnerable to the idea and obsession involved in falling in love - whether you wish to be loved. Also, depending on the person your self-destructive tenancies. My opinion but I think all of these play factors in the idea and act of "falling in love" if we are talking in a very matter-of-fact way. If you just want to hear the typical girl response it's because everyone wants to feel special now and again, only problem with that is selfishly no one thinks of that later implications of the act.