01-09-2011, 08:55 AM
i have had a pm on another site asking me. "to read how good someones poem was" upon reading it good wasn't my description of it. normally if i can't say something good about a poem i try to pass over it. usually i can always pick one or two things out which are good that soften the blow of any constructive feedback. but with this one it wasn't possible so i did an extreme in depth critique which was brutally honest. it was the only time i've ever done such a thing.
as for pm's and bad mouthing in them. if i'm of a mind i'll do it anywhere. i seldom, throw the first blow in pm but retaliate strongly and with much more venom than i would in a post. manners are good and should always be used but when bullied i enjoy to bully back.
and i love a good throw down, though as a site admin it isn't something i get chance to do, i think we're supposed to lead by experience or sumfink
normally with embers of any site i try and show proper respect unless they've pissed me off or act in a way the insults my great intellect hehe. thankfully i'm one of those people who don't need to be liked so it's okay.
i do believe that manners maketh the man and would never disrespect anyone for having them. another think i'm respectful of, is help
given. i do my best to show thanks,and never take it lightly not even from those i may dislike. all good deeds done to or for me deserve my thanks, i think it should be the same for everyone else.
as for pm's and bad mouthing in them. if i'm of a mind i'll do it anywhere. i seldom, throw the first blow in pm but retaliate strongly and with much more venom than i would in a post. manners are good and should always be used but when bullied i enjoy to bully back.
and i love a good throw down, though as a site admin it isn't something i get chance to do, i think we're supposed to lead by experience or sumfink

normally with embers of any site i try and show proper respect unless they've pissed me off or act in a way the insults my great intellect hehe. thankfully i'm one of those people who don't need to be liked so it's okay.
i do believe that manners maketh the man and would never disrespect anyone for having them. another think i'm respectful of, is help
given. i do my best to show thanks,and never take it lightly not even from those i may dislike. all good deeds done to or for me deserve my thanks, i think it should be the same for everyone else.
