04-14-2026, 10:17 PM
(04-13-2026, 10:51 PM)milo Wrote:Grumpiness annoys me in myself, it means my Let It Go switch is stuck and I have to force it manually. It concerns me in others. I live with someone that gets grumpy sometimes, I find ignoring it lets him flip his own switch. We got years of practice.(04-13-2026, 10:08 PM)wasellajam Wrote:grumpy smurf was always my favorite smurf - he was so iconic. I don't like being grumpy and I don't like when others are grumpy but I do think there is some benefit. It fills a need when you are unhappy about something but either you can't or won't put it in words but it still seems to move the matter out of your system.(04-13-2026, 10:00 PM)dukealien Wrote: Many purposes (in moderation) - an emotional screen for calculation or (deserved) cynicism, weariness, and sort-of-polite disagreement. And afterward, a source of self-dissatisfaction plus a well of renewed contact: apologies are so useful!Apologies, the most precious and effective of interactions, a tool right up there with thumbs, unique to humanity, so underused.
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