Helper (major re write)

[REW]

“When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, "Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.” 
  --Fred Rogers

Passing cars leave you feeling stupid.
Arms you wave for help, as you're stranded in
rain and cold with an exploded tire;
and your child sleeps, sheltered, with no 
car seat.  It was me who stopped
'Long the median, confused you, helped you
early that morning.  
That none other did stop
except me I explained: Helping makes you vulnerable. Everyone is afraid, and Looks to their own.

You even furnished me with a new label
to explain to yourself why I stopped.

Uxor, pater, doctor, now helper.

I will be back, but I was wondering in the meantime if that is a typo in your title?  It says, "Helfer".  Did you mean "Helper"?