What is the nicest thing you've ever done for someone without their knowledge?

[clemonz]

It's not a means to make yourself feel better than others--that's absolutely disgusting, dude.

wat?

i think it's preferable to feeling "better than others" cos you're mean, or prettier. but anyway my self esteem actually comes from always being right haha.

my acts of kindness are pretty unfathomable and enigmatic

unless you mean it's disgusting to say that unrewarded acts of kindness can be self important... they can, as already demonstrated quite well by bedsidefungus, be creepy tho.