All these tattooed bearded men will be the death of me.

[Heartafire]

Mostly I see men acting sensitive and romantic until they have had the girl in bed a few times, then they go back to their normal dumb and mean selves.

I'm the other way around. I attract girls that want their men dumb, mean and embarrassing. And after they've been with me a while, they become unpleasantly surprised.

I can relate to the slacking off with the good stuff rowens. I have a feeling you are neither dumb nor mean...but what do I know?