04-19-2013, 03:15 PM
yes but not by a long term partner. i split with my ex because we weren't happy, because i wasn't happy, we started off well and grew to want and like different things. i left and made myself happy, in the process i think she became happy. we're the best of friends and i stay there when i visit my kids. now she's able to do what she wishes and so am i. whose fault was it,? i accept the blame for leave but i think we just grew apart. if i thought my partner was unfaithful i'd leave, simple as that, i'd see her unfaithfulness as her being unhappy with our relationship and that maybe i wasn't what she really wanted. i'd accept it. up until her being unfaithful, i'd fight tooth and nail to make it work unless i were the one who was unhappy. i've been lucky in love twice so no cheats here. when i were a young buck i'd bang the crack of dawn and rattle the gates of hell. once i met my 1st partner i stopped. our relationship was over before i went looking elsewhere and we both knew it.