10-09-2012, 10:00 AM
(10-09-2012, 09:44 AM)billy Wrote: actually we do well because of your suggestion, they all come here for a laughI quite agree. There is no clamour for the change-- and there are too many lazy arses. Takes one....
i'm with you on the matter abu, i hate the back patters who give nothing in the hope of getting praised and fondled.
but feel that some aren't hardy enough to take solid feedback as long as they gave feedback to others i'd be okay with it. but, and this is a big but; i can't change something like this unless it has more backing, and with this crowd, that doesn't seem likely.
i would make one point that i think was previously made.
the for fun forum is basically a showcase. so people who don't want heavy feedback should already be able to post there willy nilly
One woman who had seemed happy and then left (name forgotten) I ran across in Another Place, and she told me is was a bit too heavy for her. And it puzzled me too, because you can hardly miss the Fun thing, and she could have just stayed there--but mainly, to me, it showed that the people here were light-hearted. She didn't really give me a satisfactory answer about that, so I was just thinking of ways to do a bit of window-dressing to ease things for the likes of her and Jill.